Monday, April 30, 2018

Music Monday : N

I'm kind of getting tired of the alphabet challenge. It's getting more difficult to pick out artists from my collection that go with various letters. It's also getting harder to focus on the idea. I keep getting distracted by different things. But that's ok I guess. We have to be on the downward slope of the alphabet by now right?

Yeah... today is the letter N. So the word of the week is nasute.

nasute :  keen-scented; critically discriminating; having a big nose

But yeah... it's another monday. To be honest... I'm a little tired lately, I don't really know why, but it's a work in progress. It will get better eventually.

Norah Jones - Don't Know Why

Nelly Furtado - Maneater

Nightwish - Moondance

Natalie Imbruglia - Wishing I Was There

Nena - 99 Red Balloons

Friday, April 27, 2018

Off the Shelf: The Shack


The first thing I want to lay out there is that The Shack will not be for everyone.  It's a work of religious fiction that deals with some very heavy themes, and the page total is not an extremely high one for me (my average fun-reading book runs 300-500 pages), but this book is not an easy read





The Shack or The Shack: Where Tragedy Confronts Eternity
William P. Young
256 pages

The story being told is a tear-jerker of dealing with a horrible personal tragedy mixed with themes of Christianity and forgiveness (I think the book's religious basis could potentially cross religions, but the base values used in the book are Christian).  The themes being dealt with are not light or cheerful, and wrapping your head around some of the concepts, even as simple as they sound in hindsight and written in novel form, makes this book a relatively difficult read.

That being said, even while I cried through a lot of this novel, I found this book to be an extremely fantastic read.  Even if you view religion from a more schoolastic approach of study, I think you could find this book a really interesting read, and anyone going through a loss that is at all religious could really find this book helpful, as it tackles dealing with drastic loss and balancing that with the view that God is a loving, caring, forgiving power.

For those that find the book to be a little too hard to wrap your head around (I consider myself smarter than the average dodo, and there were parts I had to read and re-read to really come to grasp what was being said), The Shack was made into a film in 2017 that I have watched since reading the book.  It is extremely well done and parallels the book nicely, but I will say the book is the far more detailed and better of the two, but there is only so much that can be done in the length of time a movie allows.  But the movie does make the heavy themes easier to understand, and it is always nice that is stars some big names in it (Avatar's Sam Worth plays the lead, and Octavia Spencer from The Help and Hidden Figures plays another important role, while Tim McGraw plays a minor role and also functions as a narrator).

All that being said, I loved this book.  I picked it up blindly at Walmart in July, never having heard of it, as the only thing to remotely attract my attention.  After reading it, then re-reading it, I hunted down the movie, then re-read the book again.  I will admit that I cried, a lot, both reading and watching The Shack, and I know this book will be polarizing and have a list of people with zero interest in it after finding out that it's religious fiction, but I honestly loved the book, have it featured prominently on my bookshelf, and know I'll read it again.

Target-audience wise, while some teens may like the book, with the difficult themes, I really think this book is more for adults.  While I think that anyone could enjoy this book, even as just an interesting way to look at dealing with loss and forgiveness, I think those who are at least open to religion will accept this book's central themes more, but gender-wise, both men and women can definitely find worth in this book.

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Wednesday, April 25, 2018

Music Monday : M (yeah I know it's a little late)

Music monday on a wednesday? Unfortunately, yeah. I'm trying to keep a schedule in order, but atm it's a little difficult. It's been a rough weekend and the past two days were...different. But I'm trying to keep something at least a little normal around here.

But there is a brightside! This weekend we're going to be going to see the fairy and gnome houses at the Botanical Garden. That will be a slight change of pace and a little refreshing. Plus it is likely to be all indoors, and gives us an excuse to dress up.

The word of the week is mythography.

mythography is the descriptive study or representation of myths.

I hope your week is amazing, and that the last two days of this week go smoothly for you. I know that things may seem like they have gotten a bit wonky, but it's going to be ok. Next month will be better. Remember, summer is coming.

Matchbook Romance - Farewell to Friends

The Moffatts - Love

Modest Mouse - Float On

Motion City Soundtrack - My Favorite Accident

Mark Wills - Don't Laugh At Me

Thursday, April 19, 2018

Just Visiting : The JELL-O Gallery

I remember the rides up to the Renaissance Faire, we used to pass a sign that said Jell-O Museum was off the next exit. We'd talk about going, and never have manage to go see it. But that doesn't mean that it doesn't sound like a lot of fun. It's still on my to do list, and I'm going to tell you why.

The JELL-O Gallery
23 East Main Street
Le Roy, New York 14482


This is a fun museum. It's not something that can be seen everywhere. True, Jell-o can be seen in stores, and be made at home. But it is intriguing to think there is a place where you can see a more detailed rendering of the history of the wiggly jiggly treat.

Open year round, with a minimal admission fee, you can take your family here and not feel as though it was a waste of time. Kids love sweet things, and they are likely to find the toys and various memorabilia interesting.

I myself am curious to see if they have the old disney jell-o molds there, or even some of the odd advertising boxes that have been done associated to different movies and shows over the years. Things like that I find interesting.

The museum is open during varying hours. So I know if I want to go it's going to have to be planned out more than driving past the advertising billboard. And if you're thinking about going, please check their website. The online shop even shows some of the merchandise available there. And I have to say it's mostly reasonable.

I still want to go to this museum. So if you're going, can I go with you? ^_~



Monday, April 16, 2018

Music Monday : L

This weeks music monday is actually a music tuesday, but I hope you will forgive me. I had a lot going on recently that was preventing me from getting focused. But I think I'm a little better today and I have this weeks alphabet challenge ready for you. L was kind of hard.

The word if the week is Lygophilia. Lygophilia is the love of darkness. It sounded like something that might be interesting to have used in sentences.

And oye! It's still snowing here in the Buffalo area. I wish spring would come already. I hope the weather where you are is nicer than this. Anyway, I hope you have a wonderful week!

Lifehouse - From Where You Are

Lenka - Anything I'm Not

Lilly Allen - The Fear

Luka Bloom - Gypsy Music

Lordi - Would You Love A Monsterman

Wednesday, April 11, 2018

What's on Screen? : My Little Lover

I know it's been a while since we had a "What's on Screen?" post. This is partially because I haven't been able to stay focused or pay attention well enough to get more than 5-10 minutes into a show or film. But the past two nights I managed to find a way to keep focused.

My Little Lover
ten episodes

By now I'm sure many of you know I am very fond of fantasy in various formats. So the fact that the show I binged was a fantastical romantic comedy should be no surprise. What may be a bit more of a surprise though is the fact that it was in Japanese. I watched it with the subtitles on, because I don't know Japanese myself. But I think this helped to keep my attention on the show.

Why do I say this? Because I was watching the screen to see the action, as well as watching to read the text to know what was being said. I also had audible cues fromt he soundtrack and characters that helped in comprehending what was going on. I guess it's not a huge surprise, I've been watching a few things over the past months in this manner.

Ah! But what did I like about "My Little Lover"? I enjoyed that it was cute, and didn't rely on sexualized humor. Things were very pg compared to television shows that are on currently.

I also loved the costumes. The person who made the doll costumes for Chiyomi paid close attention to how the dresses look in their miniature size in reality, and made sure that the dresses the actress wore were a match. I loved seeing the cute pieces they had her wear during the show.

Enjoyment of the series was also found in their use of fairytale ideas. They compared the situation to events that occured in various fairy tales. Frequently saying that the situation was similar to the legend of "the one inch princess". I currently don't have enough gumption to research and see if that's a real fairytale or one simply used for the story.

The show is based on a manga series that was written in serial form in the mid 1980's. This particular televised interpretation is the third one. I am unsure on if I will go out of my way to watch any of the earlier ones. But for now I am happy to have completed watching this one.

Would I watch this show again? Yes. I think I enjoyed it enough that if I was to be asked to watch it again I would. But I don't know if I want to watch this particular show alone again though. So I do recommend "My Little Lover" to those of you who may be interested in foreign film or tv. It's adorable, sweet, and charming. I really did enjoy it.


Monday, April 9, 2018

Music Monday : K

This weeks letter is K. Which should have gotten me to pick songs full of my own name....not. But you know what I mean. But let's look at the word of the week.

katzenjammer :  hangover; uproar; clamour

That's a doozy! But it should be a fun word to use or at least try to use. So here's hoping you have a magical week and I'll see you soon I hope. If you wanna find me check the facebook page to see if I'm up to anything, and sometimes my instagram account can give you an idea about what I'm up to. The next thing that I think will be coming up is memorial day. So we'll see what that brings us in May.


Kate Bush - The Red Shoes

Kaitlyn - Friend

Kittie - Paperdoll

Kate Rusby - The Village Green Preservation Society

Keith Urban - Making Memories of Us

Wednesday, April 4, 2018

Just some Thoughts

You're afraid of being alone. You're so afraid of being alone, that you think you should be alone. And in believing this out of fear, you push people away. You think because you feel lonely it's someone else's fault.

But what are you doing it to change that? You're pushing away people that love you. You're cutting yourself off from positivity. In fact you're clinging to things that project more negativity into your life. Why?

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I've had a few heartbreaks. Each one different. But the last one, it was worse. It was worse because at the core I had really believed things were supposed to have a happily ever after. Instead I found out that, you know what, not everyone can accept things for what they may be. Instead they want more than is possible.

Yet I still clung to hope that maybe things would be ok... but in the end it didn't matter. A short window of time showed me that I was not only replaceable, but forgettable. As always....

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Spare parts. That's what I often refer to myself as. Spare parts, in case someone else gets hurt or needs something, there's always me. Maybe it sounds sad to you that I would feel that way, but people have led me to believe this.

Unless they need something, I don't exist.

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I feel hurt, but should I? The wound is not mine, but there is a part of me that feels like maybe, just maybe it is partially mine. I've been crying, and there's not really a reason that I can find to justify the tears, other than that I'm mourning something that I thought existed.

Like a child finding out there's no Santa Claus, I'm starting to wonder if there's no such thing as true love.

Pathetic as it may sound that's the thought dancing around in my mind. There's no such thing as true love, and everyone will leave in the end.

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Acting out of anger doesn't change things. In fact you're only going to feel worse in the end. So I'm sorry that you miss things you can't return to. I'm sorry that I can't help you feel what it is you miss. I'm sorry that you have blinders on your mind preventing you from seeing and feeling more than your own pain.

Because hurting others, isn't an answer. It's not a solution, and you're going to find yourself questioning why you did it eventually, and by then it will be too late.

Monday, April 2, 2018

Music Monday : Special Edition for BooBoo

I figured that I deserved a break this week from the alphabet challenge. So today we're putting together something special, for someone that you may have heard a little about around here. Not a lot, but a little bit. My special Honey Bunny, my Booboo bear. <3

Why does he get a special post this week,and especially on today? Today is his birthday. ^_^ meaning it's a very special day. Plus it's Dyngus Day! So we're going to the parade downtown here in Buffalo to celebrate. If you spot us make sure to say hello, I believe there is going to be a decent size group of us.

In any case, I selected 5 songs that I thought he may enjoy, or hasn't heard, or maybe just because I wanted him to listen to them. Please feel free to wish him a happy birthday if you see him, because he really does mean a lot to me....

Peggy Lee - Do I Love You

Ricky Nelson : There'll Never Be Anyone Else

The High Kings - Red is The Rose

Connie Francis - My Happiness

Big Bad Voodoo Daddy - Save My Soul